Could it be that your husband is feeling as though he has lost control of certain things and by taking over all the finances, this gives him a way of feeling in control again?

Remember, men are "fixers". When they feel they cannot fix something, its frustrating for them and they look for some kind of control in other areas of their lives.

I hope you can both sit down and have a good and rational discussion. You are both under a lot of stress right now and sometimes things can be blown out of proportion very easily when stress abounds. I wish you and your family well.


sabby