Actually yeah ......a lot of ppl came down on her super hard for checking his phone without really listening to her about anything else. I have checked phones of past boyfriends and hey when you are right you are right. If you suspect something sometimes you need proof. I had a friend who suspected an affair but couldn't be sure....until she checked the phone records. He was having a long *** affair. Same thing happened to my cousin. And they were both ppl who would say "not my husband I "TRUST" him.
blind trust is dumb in my opinion
but you know what they say about opinions.....

anywAys op it is a supportive place but when you ask for opinions you will get just that. Good luck!