Annxo, I'm sorry that people are writing things that are unsupportive and hurtful to your posts. They're rude. I think sometimes it gets a little...I have seen people get on high horses in the relationships forum before. People think they know better, but don't say it in very eloquent (or kind) ways. But thats no excuse to talk to anyone in that way, and after reading your threads there about possibly having a controlling bf, the phone thing (and the cheating), and some of the responses, I understand why you are upset. I am glad you said something here.