My advice: pity them because you're a lot more resilient than they could ever hope to be because you have gone through more pain and hardship than they could ever handle and here's why:

Doctors like that are what I call "overly educated idiots" which basically means that all they are good at is reading a bunch of books and overly complicated medical jargon and they think that that makes them some sort of genius, yet they lack any ability to think outside the box and they use their "book smarts" to act like they're better than everybody else and put people down to fill some type of void in their life.

Also it is my experience that most Doctors come from wealthy families and have all of their needs provided and everything they need to go to medical school given to them on a silver platter, therefore, they are incapable of understanding what you're going through.