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Originally Posted by velcro003
I would not be happy if someone told me to shut up. It also depends on the context, like if I am purposefully annoying someone and they are laughing and telling me to shut up, I probably wouldn't be offended. But from what you described your H doing, oh Helllll no! I do think you should bring it up in MC.
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Totally agree here. I have been told to shut up when joking and that is fine. But never. Never. by H or much of anyone else for that matter. The only time I can remember being told to shut up was by my son's teacher when he was in 7th grade. It was over the phone. Another teacher (who I knew) was in the room and told me later that I should complain to the principal-that it was really out of line. Instead, I took my son out of school. We homeschooled for the rest of his school years. One of my better decisions, as it turns out. So maybe I owe the teacher a "thanks". Or maybe not. Son is 30 now and I still remember it.