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.. so how can i not love him the way he loves me? then i come up with crazy things to be mad about and i feel like im just sabotaging myself because deep down i dont feel the same. and i dont feel physically attracted to him like i used to. he wants sex much more than me, and not just normal guy type a deal. i mean i hardly ever want it. maybe once or twice a month i genuinely want sex. anyone else ever feel like this? its starting to scare me that his feelings arent dwindling at all while mine are.

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Salukigirl, I'm in a similar place-- questioning if I really love him or if I am just feeling obligated to love him because he loves me. The difference in my case is that my husband does not always treat me so well. (This issue is still a work in progress.) I was hoping that as we started to resolve some of our household issues my feelings for him would return and the physical connection part would resolve itself. This has not happen yet, which leave me thinking --maybe I just don't love him anymore.

So to answer your question 'Has anyone else ever felt like this?---YES. Does it scare me?, YES!, How does one fix the problem?-- Sorry I am still struggling with this one.

I hope you can work though this and regain your connection with your BF