Hi thought pool.

This thread is so interesting to me, as it highlights just how very much cultural perceptions differ.

I lived and worked in Japan for several years in the early 90's working side by side with my very serious, focused and dedicated peers. However...when the work day was over the majority of my colleagues would let off steam by clubbing and drinking...often to excess. This included female as well as male colleagues. I soon came to realise that this was very much a cultural thing with the Japanese...lots of silliness, fun and irresponsible behaviour with absolutely no shame. Come Monday morning everything was forgiven, and it was back to work as usual.

I may be wrong, but it sounds like the Indian social culture may be somewhat similar. I myself don't enjoy drinking to excess, but as long as no one was being hurt during these social outings, I was happy to feel included.