PS PLEASE don't let a BPD label make you think you are unlovable because you are. You are anxious about a label that is a total approximation/ that can't be confirmed by genetic testing, brain scans, etc. We get hung up on things. We have on and off anxiety about stuff. I have trouble feeling sane because I attempted. However, both of us are mostly sane and functional most of the time. It is hard to get our crisises behind us but I sure hope that someday we will mostly be carefree again......