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Old Apr 11, 2017, 03:09 PM
jennifer02 jennifer02 is offline
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0 View Post
Logically I would think a "nevermind don't show up" message is worse than an "I'll see you later tonight instead" message.

If anything its the former message that caused him to disappear off the face of the earth....

Nobody here can say whether or not he had any kind of hidden motives, in all honesty i don't even know what you mean by that from your post...

Only he can tell you why he disappeared, so maybe you should try asking him.
@Trippin2.0 First Let me tell you that I am sorry for asking this, because I know its over, it does not even make sense for me to ask this, but since I did not get proper closure, I want someone to give me there honest opinion and thoughts. Cause I believe like I said before, that I felt I COULD have perhaps handled this better. and maybe things would have been different?!

The ''nevermind don't come message'' was the last one I send it at almost 2:00pm in the afternoon, so that could not be it, in the sense that when we talked at 11:26 AM he said il pick you up in half an hour. and then 15-20 minutes after this call that's when I sended him the first message saying''We should see eachother better in the evening'' and let me tell you I was actually ready to go with him, I had my clothes on, but I decided to text him saying that beause I WANTED answer from him not for him to Dissapear.

Know my question is if I would have done things differently and I would have been ready when he called ,how different would it have been? would he still had dissapeared and act the same way eitherway or not? cause either way he was leaving back to the U.S.A, after the grad perhaps a month after, I'm not quite sure when, and I am also leaving back a little later than him but am leaving. So how different would all of this situation would have been if I would have done things differently?