wait I'm looking through all of the posts. you said to him "nevermind don't show up" and you're wondering why he didn't show up and assumed you were done with him? Am I missing something here?

I'm not sure if you can but if you can back up from all of the posts here, and objectively look at what he said to you.. figure out what it was that triggered you.

You also said in another place 'I dont' know what his deal was"

I dont' know from anything that you've said that he had a "deal" going on in the first place, everything he stated about meeting you was reasonable, no evidence of anything wrong at all on his part. pretty much all that you said about ulterior motives were based on assumptions that I didn't see in the text at all. He did not allude to doing anything wrong but you reacted to ... something... I'm not sure what.

The reaction to say "never mind dont' show up" seems to convey a level of irritation that doesn't coincide with anything that he said or did. Unless there is something more going on or that you know of, the fact is none of this is based on anything weird or questionable in your conversation with him.

Do you have an issue with trusting people or men specifically? Have you been deceived and cheated on in the past? Because this seems to me a level of distrust that isn't proportionate to anything that happened.