Nowhere, there are two different dreams you're trying to lump together :-) the depression dream of last night is just "feelings" and struggling both IRL and dreaming; kind of like a fever dream. I knew I was/felt depressed in the dream and was fighting against that and I'm not depressed IRL. It was confusing and scary for me; like having someone else tell you something about yourself that isn't true and you don't know how to "convince" them of it (doctor/patient relationship?)

The room/house with shoddy furniture, dust, and hopelessness, etc. are dreams I've had a couple times in the past, unrelated to the depression one. Sorry I confused you!