I think there is a lot of unfairness in life, personally it was a challenge for me to accept that and shrug it off - I had (still do just a lesser degree) this sense of fairness and belief in justice which was continually offended, it wore me out.

My own perspective is being 'good' and responsible is for my family - I cannot control the rest of the world but what I choose to do impacts on them so I try to do my best for them even when it's not easy.

I also to a lesser degree choose my charities to support and target my time and energy towards those people. There are some amazing people out there.