I started laughing when I realized what I'd thought; it's so not me. Actually, to get even with her for going away; she is Philippino so went every year back East for 6-8 weeks at a time, sometimes a couple times a year. Once she was away several weeks because she had a wedding to attend in Bangkok and I started singing Murray Head's "One Night in Bangkok" to her (she'd never heard it :-) and now associate that song with her.