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Old Apr 11, 2017, 11:18 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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why should it fall on the op to find a solution? Isn't she there to help her own issues?
If I am resentful or judgmental on the basis of someone's clothing, then it is my issue.

OP actually has a wonderful opportunity to examine herself and find ways to understand and release the resentment that is being created and/or brought to the surface by this person's clothing and manner.