((((((Sunny))))))

I'm right there with you...anxious-wise anyway.

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needed T's reassurance on a certain point, and instead his answer worried me. It was kind of wishy washy and not what I had hoped to hear. But he has a lot of expertise on this, and I wonder is he just not giving me the straight answer because he knows it is not what I am hoping to hear and he is worried he will upset me?

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Omg, I had almost this same experience. I asked T a questions and told him he could leave me a message in return and his message was crappy. Not what I needed. I hate it when that happens.

Do you think it's possible that T felt your anxiety along with you and that was why he didn't want to upset you? Maybe he felt you had enough for one day? Can you call and tell him what you need from him?

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How can I get her to go to class?

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Awww poor daughter too ((hugs)). How about the two of you go out to dinner (neutral ground). Then, ask her for her "progress report" of how's she's doing in all her classes. Pick the most important ones that she can't make up next semester or next year and draw up a contract between the two of you. Establish some kind of reward? For going/passing/getting good gades? Whatever the two of you agree on together.

If she needs to lighten her work-load, see if she can drop one or two classes and make them up later.

I bet she's mirroring your anxiety. Yikes my middle son does that all the time. We are like two peas in a pod. He can tell by my voice as soon as I answer the phone, if I am anxious.

Sunny, bet of luck. We are here for you. Take gentle care.