Well I think ideally, Perna's thoughts are best if the circumstances allow. However, with that said-- I had to be on my own when I was 19, didn't stay in college-- couldn't afford it AND an apartment (which was not a very safe place-- as I watched a girl fall to the ground while her boyfriend beat her, and once a TV crashed through a window across from my apartment.) But I had to make it and I did.....

If you decide to move out, hopefully you'll have some kind of help in getting settled and choosing a good/safe place.

Did you know that in some countries girls are married off and taking care of a home by the time they are 15 or even 14? I can't imagine that!

good luck to you what ever you decide.

mandy