Sleepy Head,
We each searched out this place because we needed help. When I first came here I didn't think I deserved to be heard. I would respond to other posts with love and understanding but when I needed to whine (yes, I thought I was whining) about something I thought I was just being an irritating person. Why would anyone want to hear what I had to say. The truth is, dear one, you do deserve to be heard. You do matter. You help us learn through your pain an experience. You help us learn through our trying to help you through that pain. You matter a lot to us.
Carrie