I'm 99.9% sure that I'm lesbian. I've been with men and women before and only women really spark my interest. However, there are two problems with that. 1: my parents would disown me if I came out (no seriously, they've disowned other gay family members)
2: in an effort to hide my sexuality, I'm married (to a man) with 3 kids. Nobody knows that I'm interested in women and I intend to keep it that way at least until my parents are gone. It's battling everything until then that's the problem...