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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
wait I'm looking through all of the posts. you said to him "nevermind don't show up" and you're wondering why he didn't show up and assumed you were done with him? Am I missing something here?
I'm not sure if you can but if you can back up from all of the posts here, and objectively look at what he said to you.. figure out what it was that triggered you.
You also said in another place 'I dont' know what his deal was"
I dont' know from anything that you've said that he had a "deal" going on in the first place, everything he stated about meeting you was reasonable, no evidence of anything wrong at all on his part. pretty much all that you said about ulterior motives were based on assumptions that I didn't see in the text at all. He did not allude to doing anything wrong but you reacted to ... something... I'm not sure what.
The reaction to say "never mind dont' show up" seems to convey a level of irritation that doesn't coincide with anything that he said or did. Unless there is something more going on or that you know of, the fact is none of this is based on anything weird or questionable in your conversation with him.
Do you have an issue with trusting people or men specifically? Have you been deceived and cheated on in the past? Because this seems to me a level of distrust that isn't proportionate to anything that happened.
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@s4ndm4n2006 The problem is that 15-20 minutes
after he had initially called me saying
that he had already arrived in town and if I was ready or if I needed more time'' to which I replied I'M not ready and I need more time, he replied ''Ok so in half an hour il pass by'' I said Ok and hanged up,, so 15- 20 minutes after this call I texted him saying ''we should see eachother better in the evening'' and after this message,, time just kept passing by, no reply, no call, nothing, it was already 2:00 Pm( his graduation was starting at 4:00PM) so I got mad (I already thought that with the time it was,, obviously he was not passing to pick me up at all. it was 2pm and his grad beginned at 4PM ), so I got mad and changed into my pajamas and that's when I sended him the last message saying:
You know what forget about it, dont come, stop wasting my time, your late''.
And after that I never heard a word from him. I had a gut feeling days before that something was going to happend, you see he was graduating, he did not have to come back to this town at all, the plan was that I was going to go visit him to his city apartment, since he did not have to come here anymore. But also take in mind that a month and a half or before he was leaving back to the states to beging with his Medical residency!!.thats why I said ulterior motives!. Honestly I would have loved doing things differently that day, I should had been ready and just say to him to come pick me up,,
to see if he really was going to act exactly the same way he did by dissapearing eitherway???
Maybe I did have trust issues with him, but I know myself too well, and I never experienced a relationship so weird like this one before. I had reasons.