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Originally Posted by *Laurie*
For 13 years I worked in a cafe. There were many 'regular' customers who would sit at tables for hours, usually working on their laptops. I was frequently asked to watch their stuff while they went to the bathroom or moved their car. I hated when people asked me to watch their possessions! I mean, what could I do if someone tried to steal their items? Nothing, really - and I felt like I was put in danger of sorts, being asked to watch their stuff.
Personally, I don't ask anyone except a family member to watch my purse - and then I would hand my purse to the family member and ask them to actually hold on to it. As for a laptop and other possessions, I just don't ask another person to watch the items. I don't think it's a thoughtful request.
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I completely agree! It is too much of a burden and too risky. And I also agree that it is not a thoughtful request since it comes off as irresponsible and makes other people feel obligated. In some cases, asking for a friend to watch something while I step away for a minute or two is one thing, as long as they aren't planning on leaving. But it is an entirely different scenario when asking a stranger to watch their belongings, and vise versa.