Got really reactive when my husband was late today because he decided to make a side trip that made him much later than the original plan with me. I have a problem in this area and have found this kind of lateness very upsetting. I got upset because he should call and let me know or let us both talk about what he is planning and what I was planning. The hard part is it really freaks me out. I don't know the beginning for this on but came from a childhood of abuse in various ways. This affect on me is big inside. I was eventually able to speak to him about it but in light of other struggles I am having it was very painful in every way. I wish I could regain a little peacefulness but I am in a real struggle.