Even my T, whom I consider to be generally very good has shown signs of this when I have discussed the impact of T1 on me. Like it was hard for him to hear how much T1 hurt me because it reminded him of the power he has to damage his clients. I had to have a word with him, and while he was apologetic, I told him this is what I call the us and them attitude of the profession.
It frustrates me so much and I have promised myself I will never be that way.