You could always do what an in-law of mine did who actually is gay and was giving all sorts of BS for it because my step father's side of the family is mostly heavy Christian and move to Japan and make all of your family who judges you based on your sexual orientation contact you through a lawyer.

Well maybe not that extreme but the point I'm trying to make is if you are lesbian or bisexual and people can't accept that part about you then they shouldn't have a place in your life.

You deserve better.