I really appreciate those of you who put so much thought into the posts.
If I could hand this thread over to someone wiser then I, then I would.. unfortunately, like me, people have to hibernate at times..
I agree with the poster who commented on the love in this thread, thank you
(((((( Rohag )))))) and (((((( So leigheas ))))))) and ((( all ))) thank you
Love to all who are struggling