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Originally Posted by Molinit
As a straight woman whose husband lied for years about his sexuality, I would ask that you discuss this with your husband. If mine had said when he began questioning, he wouldn't have wasted years of my life while he hid behind me and I was none the wiser. Terrible and selfish of him.
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Agree with this advice to you, psychgirl52. You may also want to seek out gay support groups who can guide you through the process of coming out to your husband and children, and to your family members. You will find resources and people who can become your support system, who will guide you through the process and help you to facilitate communication with your family members and your husband and children, that allows everyone to have an open, honest, safe and supportive conversation with each other.
It's always better to just be honest. Be true to yourself, so that you can live an authentic life. And be honest with your husband and your children together, so that they can adjust to the change their family will undergo once you do come out to them. Definitely get a support system in place first, so that you don't do this alone.