I understand what you are talking about. Been there, done that.

I think it might be useful for you to tell t that you reread emails and look at the website. I don't see how anyone would think that is creepy, or snooping. From reading here, ts have different thoughts about facebook, so maybe not sharing that makes sense. But I think that telling t that you are struggling to keep the connection and that you are trying to do that without bugging her would be good information to process.