Hi Myzen,

That is excellent advice!!! Thanks so much!!! My therapist and I talked about this in my session on Saturday, and she said she felt like this friendship before was idealized, that my friend and I lived in a "shared illusion" where we expected perfect support from eachother- and that a relationship like that is doomed to failure. I know that's true. And what you've said here, just reiterates the point my T made. Thanks for that.

Angela