No, my husband is not a veteran. He just turned 34 last month and it seems as if his mental illness just gets worse the older he gets. He was only diagnosed a year ago with the bi polar, but I honestly think there is something else there. I'm no doctor, but like I said, BPD maybe.

I think his mother is going to call his pdoc because there is no way I can do it. He will flip out on me. He'll probably flip on her too, but she's his mother. She claims she noticed things in him when he was growing up, but has also noticed the anger and personality problems even more so as he has gotten older. Also, his mother's family has a history of schizophrenia so I'm sure thats where all of this comes from. I don't think his fathers family had any diagnosed mental illness, but his father was physically abused and then verbally abused my husband up until the age of 18 or so.