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Old Nov 29, 2007, 03:46 AM
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I think that maturity, being responsible, & financially stable are the most important aspects of being on ones own (moving out from family?).

If you are not financially stable, the first time you don't end up with enough money to pay rent, then you either become dependent on someone else to bale you out or you end up homeless (neither are good options).

Having a budget & money accounted for all your expenses & living within your means is being responsible & mature (that doesn't mean living on credit cards).

It isn't easy being on your own. I was never happy at home & wanted to move out from the time I was 13 (I'm now 54....lol). I ended up only moving out when I was in college & when I got married. Looking back, I wish I had been out on my own for a while & been completely independent. It is a wonderful experience, but it isn't wonderful when you aren't completely financially independent & have to worry about someone else controlling you because they have the money you need to live on.

just my thoughts,
Debbie
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