We do have our bills separated- he makes twices as much as myself + i carry all the health and dental insurance. After taxes i don't bring home much but im suppose to buy food for the whole family, pay for our phones, electric, water co-pays for doctors and meds- gas for my car(i drive all day) the pets and anything else that comes up - he flipped when i asked him for a check for a bill he said he was in charge of?????.......
I have a therapist, we have 2 c a therapist for our daughter (he's not happy about this) he has turned into such a control person i don't know what to do..Im smart, caring and very loyal i never had $$$$ problems til lately- im sooo confused