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sunrise, I didn't agree with that either, especially the very non ethical things he'd say in some of our sessions.
When I look back, I realize he needs therapy!!!

I am glad the lady T, I had after I moved, accepted my going away gift, when her and her hubby were retiring,moving out of state. In one of our sessions when I told her of the former T's comment, she said it was hurtful the way he handled it, and a T can accept something like a "good bye" and/or "thank you" gift, she has over the years.
I guess he was being a schmuck, ha!ha!
I agree with you about holiday gifts vs goodbyes or thank you gifts. I think holiday kinds may make he or she feel obligated or uncomfortable.
Then again, I have no idea what the poster's relationship is with their T.
I just hate to see anyone be made to hurt the way I did that day, 7yrs ago.
Just my 2 cents

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