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Originally Posted by here today
so to me it's incomprehensible, too, that the therapists don't do their own research, especially getting feedback from clients, so they know better where they failed. Instead, they mostly take that kind of feedback as a personal attack. And, of course, when the client is angry, there is an element of personal attack there, too. But if they don't/can't listen, then how can they learn? But maybe they don't see themselves in the business of learning, just "caring". As an engineer, that just don't compute!!
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i use to think it would be ok to give my ex-T feedback, that he would welcome it because in the end it would help him become a better T, to help him understand better. seems like i was wrong
..more times then not, ex-T took it as a criticism and he eventually would become defensive. unfortunately, my ex-T didn't want to hear or really acknowledge where therapy failed...