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Old Apr 14, 2017, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Echos Myron View Post
Thanks Junk. I sort of believe it but my cynical voice is saying "it's amaing how much more someone can appear to care when they're on the clock".
I can't believe how bad he is at getting caring across via email. He's not always terrible, but he's not consistent and it's the only way in which he isn't consistent.
have you talked about what you need from his emails with him? has he ever really given you what you needed thru an email? im not sure if you just post here when it's not a good email, but from what i've read, it seems he sends a couple vague sentences and that's it

however, i dont think that translates to him not caring and spouting out something just to appease you in the moment. how comfortable is he with emailing about serious things?

i know the pain of hoping for something a little more from T and getting something that almost makes it worse, like if he hadn't of responded- i might had been better off. i've definitely been there and felt that! hang in there, hold on to your trust with him. think of you sitting there with him, and imagine this convo... he really isnt that abrupt and short in person

edit: gonna post this in your own thread instead of taking up dear T
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