Set goals for yourself. Ditch the dead weight who don't help. The world is a big place, but sometimes when all else has failed, you have to start again. It's certainly not easy, but others have to do the same. People who suggest such things should know that moving forward isn't a simple chore. But if people don't help you, it makes sense to finalize your connection with them, and find people who want to help. It can be how the saying goes, 'looking for a needle in a haystack.'
This can be everyone and anyone. I've decided to part ways with my current support worker. We're not compatible. He hasn't got a clue about anything. So I decided it's time to put a stop to things. Think of it like this: Rather than be stuck with people who don't help, it's better to just end it before you get in too deep. The more you see someone, the more you may think you have to hang in, out of fear of not being able to replace that person.
Unfortunately, social workers are an exception to people you can be rid of, as they may be assigned to you in some mandatory manner, which means your life will never feel like it's yours. You may feel so bad, knowing this.
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