My one sister just called me this morning, just talking about politics. I then thanked her for calling, said I thought the whole family had written me off. She said you're welcome and instantly changed the subject and ended the conversation.
So, all these people who do have the power to tell my mother she was horrible in how she treated me and my h, and can tell her that she is acting MI and that she should look at her bad behavior and mend the relationship with me-- all these people choose to do nothing and just dismiss me.