Transference for me is somebody does something i dont like, and i react like a crazy person out of the blue. I feel trapped like i did with my mother. I cant just nicely ask the person to stop doing whatever. I feel like they think it is their right and they will INSIST on persisting in the behavior. So i explode. The "transferee" is usually pretty innocent tho, really. They had no way of knowing it was bothering me that much. An incident that comes to mind is my wanting to decrease my weekly t sessions. Or a coworker asking me to join her and other coworkers for a midafternoon walk to the cafeteria for a soda.

Regarding the time slot - your t would have been left with an empty time slot for a month. "Reserved for skies"? I guess i cant really see him telling someone, hey you can have this time for 4 weeks, but then you have to give it back?

Given how my t schedules his little paper calendar book, i know he does it week to week based on when i was there the previous week, cuz thats the only times its gotten messed up, when something changed the previous week.

So there are at least 4 POVs on this - can he see it thru your eyes, can you see it thru his eyes, etc?