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Old Apr 14, 2017, 02:51 PM
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Trace, you have a theme of guilt when it comes to how things involving others that resulted in bad endings may have been prevented if you did something different. You have to work towards not punishing yourself for other people's choices that ended up where something bad happened.

This challenge fits into "survivor's guilt" where a person really struggles with coming to a point in themselves to come to an understanding that whatever was lost really was not their fault in any way. I have struggled with this challenge myself, I was so angry with myself for not recognizing a danger sooner that could have prevented something traumatic from happening.

Reality is that no matter how much one tries to prevent and care, things can happen that are bad or traumatic anyway.
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