That is not the point, its not a matter of something that is not helpful for my career, but I have plenty of my own work hardships too and can empathaize with you in not taking vacations. Id give you a vacation if i could. I think that would be nice if you could take one. Im due for one too.
The issue i posted about was feeling wounded and being treated on a cruel manner. I dont see therapists giving away long term slots when people go on vacations or surgery or other short times, and not even talking with the client about it-its just mean. Im calling it for what it is.
I dont need to own my therapists stuff AND mine (i feel like that is what you are suggesting to me though i could be misunderstanding your other reply). I have enough of my own stuff to regret, grieve, or beat myself up about. I have plenty of my own crap.
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Originally Posted by unaluna
(((Skies))) ive never gone on vacation while i was in therapy. My first long term t kinda scared me out of it. Plus i dont travel much, so im probably the wrong person to talk about this. I take my "time off" whenever my ts take their time off. Im not really normal! Not exactly agoraphobic, but kinda. I just dont see the point of a lot of stuff. Plus im not healthy enough. And im alone.
I havent worked for over ten years, but when i was working, yeah i had 7:30 am appointments that i had to drive an hour to get to, then drive into work, where i was already considered late. Or i would take 3 hour "t lunches". It doesnt exactly help your career, so yeah i can empathize.
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