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Originally Posted by SS1971
I totally get the panic even when in mad mode .. I was the same for the brief period I hated mine .. that will be hard if you go twice a week .. I go once a week and the separation has been hard enough .. hopefully discussing it with her and going through some options on how to cope when she does go away will help a bit
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I go through the "I hate you" thing too, I think its my way of trying to make the sadness of her being away better and also to detach for safety in case I'm abandoned.
I discuss my T's vacations in depth and I'm lucky that we too have some form of contact but even with that its still hard. Nothing seems to make the feelings go away