Really? Expecting someone to be considerate is being intrusive? Wow.

It's a relationship, it's therapy. It's professional relationship too.

I attend meetings at work regualrly. We work out a time. If someone has to change something,, like a standing meeting, they ask the other parties. They just don't take it upon themselves to change the time of the meeting to when the meeting is convenient for only that person and screw everyone else if the time doesn't work for them. Or not tell them in advance. And no trauma or hurting involved. I'm sure someone doing that would not be looked at favorably at all.

I can't stand Dr. Phil, but wow.

It totally seems you think I should own his stuff AND mine.