I feel the same way, although I'm not actively losing weight at the moment. I think I'll have more motivation to begin if it might actually make me less curvy...

I haven't been wearing many guy's clothes recently because they just don't fit comfortably anymore, but I'd love to in the future.

I also hear you on the breasts, even though mine are only DD's. They don't bother me all the time, but sometimes they do. I identify as gender fluid although I do often look very effeminate right now. My personality is pretty masculine though and I've never felt comfortable referring to myself as a "woman". Maybe female, referring to sex rather than gender.

But yeah, you're definitely not the only one who feels that way.