Sky,

I know how angry & frustrated it makes you when you can see right in front of you what happend & can't get any action to prove anything. Only thing might be is if they ordered anything & had it shipped somewhere.....for a trace. I was lucky that a small business in Kansas was willing to open up & tell me that information....Victoria Secret wasn't willing to tell me where they were sending the order....only the police.....lucky they stopped the order because of fraud anyway.

I can truely understand your frustration after all I went through with the ID theft & horrible abuse that happened with my Mother's situation 3 years ago.

One other update was that I decided to call the main office of the motel I stayed at & gave them a report about what happened. They asked me if I had talked to the manager of the motel & I told them I didn't think that would work because I didn't know who all was involved there because of how I was treated rudely by the owner/manager. I mean, what good is it to tell the cayote about the chickens he ate?????? How far would that go????

I told them it was a situation that needed to be looked into from a higher up situation. They also are getting back with me on my flute because of the high $ amount it was worth....& will be investigating the motel from their position.

My mind has always been so very logical putting pieces together like this.....maybe that was why I was good at the engineering....maybe not having that kind of thinking to do after I lost my career was difficult....my mind does like to have challenges like this in front of it. I just don't like the personal emotional issues I am dealing with along with it.

I am so frustrated because my husbad seems to be pushing every possible button right now. Knowing that I am at a breaking point.....he just pushed harder. I lost it last night & just saw red....it was like a snap....& he just kept pushing more & more. I need some time to just colapse in a few days when I get all the information out where it needs to be & he lays on his rear & does nothing....telling me that I have to tell him what he has to do & he can't do anything on his own. I am seeing red just writing about this!!!!!!! A feeling of HATE just wells up inside & I want to be as far away from him as I can get...& just can't escape his crap. I don't even want him kn KY with me for Christmas & right now, I don't know how I'm even going to get back there for Christmas.....I am so exhausted....just want to collapse.....but can't just yet.

Still waiting for the detectives call so I can dump all the information on him. Have to go to the credit union & take care of all the banking & closing/opening accounts....faxing information to the police....& I have my pain specialists appointment this afternoon that they were wonderful enough to change when I was having so many problems on Monday. At least outsiders to me treat me better than my husband.

Sorry for the rant....just had to get it off my chest....my pdoc just called & he said to just take some meds for the next few days & relax.....see if I can't just get through it all. I know that's what happend, but when in the middle of the hurricane, it doesn't look like there is anything outside of where I am.

Debbie