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Old Apr 14, 2017, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Skies View Post
thank you
i'm pretty hopeless, there's no helping me in all reaily. no need to try-just your kind words were helpful really.

Have been feeling dehumanized. hurting so bad, really really really hurting. and alone.

someone hurt me really bad, and knew they were doing it. I have trauma from someone sociopathic and when people have no empathy, i feel like i'm being stabbed, killed. it catapults me to the past

The person who hurt me isn't sociopathic but had a need to hurt me. i'm not sure what it is. their own vulnerabilities, i think. but it hurts to be alone in at all, no one understands. i feel so alone and don't want to exist
Does this have something to do with the post you deleted? Is that the person?
You do deserve to be treated nicely, everyone does. I'm sure you know how to treat people nicely and that you do that. Some people don't have that quality though. They know no other way than to degrade and hurt others. That's when you identify them as a toxic person in your life and distance yourself from them. Depending on who it is that may be very hard but will be necessary if you ever want to be happy or at peace.
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