Thread: T vacations
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Old Apr 14, 2017, 11:52 PM
waterlogged waterlogged is offline
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Originally Posted by Elio View Post
I haven't had to deal with long vacations yet since the transference kicked in. Yep, mine is maternal as well. She hasn't had a vacation in a year and I fear one is coming due. Right now, even going through a short period of not wanting to talk to her, I can't imagine going even a week between sessions (I'm 2 x wk). In May, we have a week with only 1 session due to a holiday and I'm already feeling anxious about it.

What am I going to do when she decides she wants a 2-4 wk vacation?
If you are in the US, it's unlikely (as in, not customary) that your T will take a 4 week vacation. 2 weeks maybe, but 4 weeks isn't part of the normal way of being like it is in Europe.

I still really get distressed when my T is out, but at least now I don't psychosomaticize it....I don't get physically sick anymore.