I'm often hypersexual when hypo/manic. Actually, I've been that way for awhile now even though I'm not manic, and it frustrates me because I am widowed and can't do anything about it besides masturbate. I don't go to bars so there's no danger of me meeting guys and sleeping with them, and I'm not ready to move on anyway so "meeting guys" isn't on my agenda, period. I want sex, but I don't want a man and I'm not a lesbian. What am I supposed to do, I wonder?