Hi Salukigirl,
Thanks for that-it's a really helpful answer because I think you might have "hit the nail on the head" for me.I want to trust my friend again,I really do-I want to contact her and give it a go but something always stops me.My intentions are really good but somehow I don't seem able to put them into action..............maybe ,as you say,I just need more time.I'm glad you and your friend worked things out in the end.