The fact that either of you hurt the other does not justify retaliation, but is he owning up to his prior mis-treatment of you? The fact that you had retaliated does not release him from that responsibility, and you owe him nothing beyond honesty as an amend.
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| manic-depressive with psychotic tendencies (1977) | chronic alcoholism (1981) | Asperger burnout (2010) | mood disorder - nos / personality disorder - nos / generalized anxiety disorder (2011) | chronic back pain / peripheral neuropathy / partial visual impairment | Gastrointestinal Stromal Tumors (incurable cancer) |
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