Thank you for this thread. Especially your last post. One of our others, Leigh, was looking online about ten years ago for a Daddy but the sites she found online always included a sexual aspect, to which our main self got scared off when she realized what Leigh was doing. We have some insiders who also crave that mommy we never had. I think it is very helpful to look at ourselves and see that we have been mothering ourselves since the first dissociative episode in life. It is extremely important to give ourselves credit.
Our main self always doubts herself as a mother to our daughter yet daughter is secure, safe, healthy, and happy, and she has a good healthy attachment with us and a strong loving bond.
I, as our usual spokesperson, am grateful for this thread, amandalouise. Thank you.

- Sarah