Last year, I gave my T and his Office Manager some good coffee. I gave it to his office manager who was very appreciative and so was T.

I think I asked once or maybe twice if they tried it and they just said no not yet. I didn't ask anymore after that.

I have ideas for this year but I'm hesitating a bit and thinking about whether to go there this year. However, at the end, when I'm done, I plan to give him my family's traditional pasta gravy and meatball recipe...we were talking food one day and he asked what was in it and I said...oh no buddy...we don't give that to just anyone so we'll have to wait and see....

I've never given it out and he is the only person that I would give it to. It is my great grandmother's recipe...very special to me as he is...

I would say though that each should do what they feel is right!