Hi there, I'm not sure if I've done something I shouldn't have. There is a female who has asked my partner out for a drink and has been calling him all of which I found out and not by him. When I confronted him he didn't say that much except she was ugly and then I had to basically keep asking if he had told her he had a girlfriend. This isn't the first time this kind of thing has happened.
The way I found out was his mobile and we are both open to borrowing or using each others etc so that wasn't the issue. When I told him how I found out he got really angry and somehow it was my fault in the end.
This has been playing on my mind and I am feeling like an idiot asking where he is going why can't I go etc etc.
I ended up texting this person and telling her that he has a girlfriend and to not ask him out again and that surely she knows what the right thing to do is. After that I sat with my heart beating so fast and felt so nauseous I nearly threw up. I only did this last night and haven't heard anything. It was such a protective instinct and it was like I couldn't stop myself.
Can anyone please give me their thoughts. I'm so grateful